Category Archives: Music

A Phone Number

I just called a phone number I used to call every week to have my Dad pick us up from piano lessons. He forgot us once, so I was allowed to call when my sister started her session so that he would get off of work and be there on time.

This number is in my heart forever but not today as I ran up the chain of command and know that 40 years ago my father was head of that department and today everyone was asleep at the wheel then put me on perpetual hold.

So I called the President’s office and was told I’d get a callback. I said I have a great story, but I’m really looking for my 3rd grade teacher’s email address and here is the year she graduated and you just gave her an award.

I wrote because I just named my guitar after a song she had us sing in 3rd grade music classes.

Close your eyes. Think of the earliest phone number you remember. It’ll be your mom, your dad or a grandparent, or a best friend. If they’re still around, call them and say you’re thinking of them.

It was my Dad’s work phone.  He’s still with me today, but all over the world. He is a connection to my past, present and hopefully will be in it for the near future.

The president’s office called me back (apparently the PR office is still hung over from last night) to say they can’t give me any information. Another organization she participates in won’t give me any information or an email address.

So I emailed one of her kids who might give me the correct email address. This is a woman who taught me to love music. Her husband used to sing at our concerts, and played Puccini’s Pinkerton in Madama Butterfly (my sister was the baby who was supposed to pretend to sleep, she actually did). He sang to rival Frank Sinatra when our chorus sang “Would You Like to Swing on a Star” a year later. I doubt he remembers that performance but I do.

So if you ever doubt where you are, you could be swinging on a star, or just be a happy wanderer as I and my guitar are. Make some music! Dee

Instruments

I had a revelation today. As the lightning, thunder, wind, rain, snow and sleet came down around me I realize I have a voice.

When I was young, it was channeled into violin, piano and ballet. Then my parents got me a cheap guitar and I started up a mainly tone-deaf band at age 12.

I gave it all up. Singing a solo and being second then first chair violin was stressful. I was very shy and one parent told me I could do anything or be anything, and the other said I was worthless. That guitar was stolen.

A few years ago after I filed our taxes (which I’ve yet to do this year) I went in and bought a starter guitar and signed up for lessons. I took private lessons from  a gospel singer, then a drummer. I bought a fancy guitar and the only thing I do for it now is keep it hydrated.

I wondered why I couldn’t keep up the music, then just figured it out in this storm. I’ve found a voice. Some folks around me don’t like it, but for the past 15 years I have a voice. I called both my US Senators today. My voice and my pen (keyboard now) are my instruments for now.

Yes, every once in a while I lay back, close my eyes, tune my guitar and play Bye Bye Miss American Pie, or Teach Your Children, or even 500 Miles. Perhaps I’ll do that now.

My voice needs to be my voice and words until they are no longer needed, then I can play another instrument. I am a multi-tasker but with everything else… Think about it, Dee

Blackbird, Bye Bye

Pack up all your cares and woes,

Here I go, singing low, bye bye blackbird

…… blackbird, bye bye.

Last post, they’re selling my posts. I never wanted or got a nickel from them, I will be removing them from WordPress.

I don’t know how to do this as I’m a writer and not a techie, that’s probably why they allow people to steal my words and sell them.

To my readers, I salute you and will be back on other than WordPress. Thank you for being with me and inspiring me these few years. The grandmother who died before I was a year old sang that song to me, to get me to go to sleep. It’s that time. Dee

 

My Playlist

While there’s much more out there, the Today show is showcasing cast members’ playlists and off the top of my head, in no order is mine, narrowing it to ten.

Father and Son from Cat’s In the Cradle – Harry Chapin

Isle of Capri – Frank Sinatra, of course

If I were a Carpenter – Johnny Cash lyrics

Your Song (how wonderful life is with you in in the world)  -Elton John

Whipporwill song by Juni Fisher

Layla – Eric Clapton

Someone To Watch Over Me as sung by Linda Ronstadt and arranged and played by Nelson Riddle and his orchestra

Hey There Delilah – Plain White T’s

Wait, I have more space!

Sarah by Bob Dylan

London Homesick Blues (to the Swamp) as sung by Jerry Jeff Walker, our school anthem!

At Last, as sung by Etta James.

Anything by Cole Porter, Rogers & Hammerstein, Lerner and Loew, Johnny Cash, PPMary, anything sung by Etta James, Aretha Franklin, Lena Horne of Joan Baez or Marion Anderson. CSNY. James Taylor, Simon and Garfunkel. Or written and/or sung by John Denver.

Whew! Hope that’s all for this train ride/wreck, bringing up my entire childhood and putting it on display! D

Dee and the Tone Deaf Band

Yes, at age 12 Santa got me a cheap guitar with nylon strings and I put together a band with two girlfriends.

I thought if they knew the tune I could sing harmony and play the guitar, I knew C, D, E, Em, G and that’s about it.

Next thing I know, we’re on deck for a concert. OK, I’d played the guitar a couple of months, self-taught. The concert was a disaster and we broke up afterwards.

We sang “500 Miles,” “Day is Done” and “Teach Your Children.” I apologize profusely to the authors and singers of the original works, but I was 12.

Now I’ve had six months of lessons and a very nice folk guitar but my fingers are shredded from lack of air and humidity.

I can say I’ll never take private guitar lessons from a drummer again. Most of these teachers look to rich parents in the area to make their kids a great singer or pianist.

And if I’m ever dumb enough 40 years later to get a band together, no-one who is tone-deaf will have a part in it. We were singing to one tune (the drummer professor) and I gravitated to harmony and he went with me. This is on a well-known song. Then he looked at me and said, “I get it, you have perfect pitch.” All I could say is “That’s what my music teachers have told me.”

End of lessons. Sad, I know. When I’m lower than 6.400 feet above sea level and stay out of dishwater without gloves, I may be able to learn again. Right now my right thumb and forefinger are bleeding.

Thanks to my mentors, my dad, PDX and my husband for keeping music in my head and heart. PDX I’m stale, way more than day-old but willing to learn. Cheers, Dee

Follow Me

An old John Denver song, probably before you were born. He never asked. We just made job decisions together and went to the next town. My mother always hated that about me, probably because she did it herself.

It’s time for another change and it hurts our hearts to leave where we live and where we will retire.

But as we enter into our tenth year of marriage I actually prefer Peter, Paul and Mary’s version of the aforementioned song as well as this one by John Denver. It starts with “I’ll walk in the rain by your side.”

And the wind will whisper your name to me
Little birds will sing along in time
Leaves will bow down when you walk by
And morning bells will chime

I love my husband, he’s incredibly smart, honest and hard-working. Spending 24/7 with him for a few weeks we talk, discuss, argue then coalesce and make a better environment for change. The change we want is not to be together 24/7 and have money coming in the door rather than out. I want him to be happy with his work, because it means so much to him to be challenged and have a loose leash, so to speak.

Much as I hate to say it, these brief periods are good for us as a couple and family (with dog Zoe). We all get to know each other again. While our state’s unemployment office has denied coverage for all the time Jim was working instead of taking vacations, we’re OK.

This is gonna be a good week. I can feel it already. We even have snow! Cheers! Dee

Are there any skills you’ve picked up in the last year?

Guitar, at age 50, but I quit lessons for several reasons. I think piano, not guitar.  I may even remember violin, not guitar.

I had a band at age 12 with two gals who couldn’t play or sing.  Now I’ve a lovely guitar, a Seagull Artist Folk and hydrate it twice a week.  I need to play again.  Not that I’ll ever be good.  But I know I haven’t played for a while because I don’t have calluses on my fingers.  Now’s probably a good time to take it in, as a veteran guitarist advised me, to a local shop for several weeks to have a little work done.

She’s beautiful, though.  Perhaps if I named her I’d give her a little more attention.  I rebelled at my private lessons.  They weren’t giving me what I wanted, or what I needed.  If I get back into it I need to choose my teacher very carefully.  Thanks, WordPress, for the question, Dee

Blue Skies

Just as I’ve always loved Frank Sinatra, I always wanted to sing like Rosemary Clooney. My parents had an album of hers, Mono of course, that I had to bring to school for some kind of project. Mom saw a hint of cleavage on the album cover so covered it up with masking tape with my name on the tape.

My favorite moment on screen was in White Christmas with Bing Crosby, talking about liverwurst and buttermilk and singing about counting your blessings instead of sheep.

I didn’t know that 80′s pop icon Debbie Boone was married to her son until now, and as she and her father have wonderful voices I can’t wait to hear her tribute to her late mother-in-law. Rosemary Clooney, I met her once in Four Girls Four with Rose Marie and Helen O’Connell. When I think of her I’ll always see her at the piano with Bing singing White Christmas. So, get your decorations going, we expect a tree and a red velvet gown with white fur trim for caroling. Let’s get this holiday season rolling! I’ll start by counting my blessings instead of sheep, Dee

Yodeling

Dad recently told me that my grandmother and her brother were accomplished yodelers. I never knew that. My family was always musical and violin and accordian and concertina were what Dad used to talk about when we were kids.

I stopped into Wal-Mart today and the checker knew I’d lost my voice (pharyngitis) and advised me to rest my voice so I can sing Christmas carols later on. What a sweet thought!

Dad still plays the violin. I’ve only made sure my beautiful guitar is hydrated, not played for nearly a year. Sorry Korky and Conservatory staff! Music is so important and to let it slide is a shame.

Especially when we have talents like Wylie Gustafson and Juni Fisher in the neighborhood. Yodeling Fool is a song I downloaded this past weekend for the kids to hear. Buffalo Gals is also a favorite. Also Juni’s new CD, all about the Pendelton Roundup. I need to get one of those for my bud PDX Knitterati.

There are snowflakes on my screen. Out here it’s too cold to snow. I’m about to light the fire. Right now I can’t speak much less yodel but I will get your yodeling book, Wylie. Some family traditions need to be maintained. Cheers, Dee

Cool Music

I took up acoustic folk guitar last year because I knew it would be a long winter and no-one was around and music had always interested me from violin to piano to dance. Both my instructors were more comfortable teaching grade school students but found raw talent even if it came with an adult mind and body.

My first private instructor taught me basic chords mainly via childrens’ songs, Johnny Cash and others. My second was a rock & roll drummer and we were all over the place. For both, I brought in songs I wanted to learn, just to be able to strum with family and have a sing-along. I don’t think any song I chose to learn was written after the 70′s.

Then one day I was driving home from errands, turned on the radio and “Hey There, Delilah” was playing. I loved the tune. A few weeks later I was able to download the lyrics and vowed to figure out the chords for a beginner guitarist. I do that. But the best thing was being able to tell my teacher that I finally found a song from this decade, this century, that I want to learn to play!

Quit guitar for a while but bought a nice one and keep it in shape and hydrated. My husband told me weeks ago about a work function we have to attend and I kept it in the back of my mind, but tonight he told me it’s a concert. Plain White Tees! I jumped up and down (ask him!) and told him this story. I hear Delilah in my head but have to put it to paper before Friday and the private company concert. I’m going to do it without listening to it and make it work for beginner guitar. That’s my challenge. Aside from heating up my butternut squash and carrot soup, making sharp mac & cheese and a green salad, all I have to do is wash the dog and 12 other things. I’m best under the gun (figuratively, of course).

I hope you’re doing what you want in your life. It’s probably cooking. These days you may be one of the few to eat Concord grapes freshly picked. I ache for those days when I had them fresh off the vine. I need to find the site where they’re freezing the pulp and winnowing out the seeds. If I could get frozen Concord grape pulp, I’d learn how to make a great pie and use it for savory dishes as well. Cheers, Dee