Monthly Archives: December 2009

Brava!

Congratulations Annise Parker, just elected mayor of the 4th largest city in the US of A. I want to say this in the words of a dear friend, Finally, a large conservative city that can see the merits in voting for a person’s abilities and strengths and not against them for their sexual orientation! A true victory for everyone has occurred! We wonder where this significant major political step will lead us!

Yes, soon-to-be Mayor Parker is not heterosexual. We spent some time in her region and are only sorry we’re not there to celebrate. The people who made this happen, starting years ago, are still, through their emissaries, fighting for race and gender equity. Not preference, equity.

I’ve been a champion of human and civil rights all my life, even before I truly fought for them legislatively. I’m a married woman who believes that everyone deserves an equal chance at life, schooling, a job, meeting a mate and raising children together. Those are simple values that have been denigrated by many people in speeches and in the press.

Some of the best friends I have don’t want a husband or wife of the opposing gender. I support their right to be together and will continue to support them in their struggle to be accepted in society. This will not be a theme in a cooking blog. It was important that something be said. You know who you are, and for those who hate me for what I’ve just said, leave the blog. In America, we’re all supposed to be free and work for that freedom every day. I do, as my head and heart tell me. Sorry to be so serious, Dee

Serious Weather… in Paradise

We’ve had more cold than snow so far, our first winter out west, but that’s about to change later on today. We’re living in a townhome that is partially contiguous to one next-door neighbor who inadvertently started a flood yesterday that seriously damaged the interior and walls of two townhomes. We arrived home to find water dripping in front of both garages. I called the management company and e-mailed them, to no avail. Later on I called the Homeowners Association. The management company sent a couple of guys out to pour salt (a few hundred pounds) on the driveway and shovel. Then finally one of the hired hands/shovelers took out his cell phone and took a photo of the exterior damage and presto! The big dude was on the scene.

Apparently the heat was off or too low for safety. Most of our neighbors are not in residence except for a week or two per year. Our neighbor’s maid came in yesterday came in yesterday and it was freezing so she turned on the heat, which, later on, burst pipes that ruined the interiors of two expensive ski properties. We wish we’d had an emergency number to call, because it was several hours before anyone came to check on the problem. It is certainly not the maid’s fault that the owner didn’t have the heat high enough to prevent the bursting of pipes. Don’t worry about us. We keep it (too) warm in here and the hot tub, drained for summer and now filled and at 68 degrees, was maintained just yesterday. It’s just a reminder of how scary the weather can be out here.

I just finished checking on a couple of relatives and friends in the Northeast, where the Thruway is closed in part of NY State and conditions are terrible. Jim took my car a couple of days last week, in the snow and it was filthy so I had it washed today. Even though the washer fluid is full, it won’t spray, so I had to Windex the windshield and back window inside the unheated garage just to be able to see to drive it to the car wash! Yes, I always get the undercarriage wash, as we keep our cars for years and I know what road salt can do to a car.

On the plus side, we’ve read about this BBQ place and tried it last night, first BBQ since we left TX earlier this year! Jim had the brisket and I had a pulled pork sandwich with cole slaw. Yummy! We’ll be back! I should probably get some food before we’re snowed in here for a few days. Cheers, Dee

Balaclavas and Boots

When I was a kid, of course we lived up on a hill where the weather was colder than town. So, 4-6 weeks before the other kids were dressed for winter, my sister and I were in hand-knitted balaclavas (think what deer-hunters would wear, thanks Aunt L) and shoe-boots, where you place boots on over socks and take your real shoes to school in a backpack. Jackets and hand-knitted mittens, probably with yarn keeping them in our coats.

Today I went out in my bright yellow Hunter boots. They don’t even sell them in the UK anymore but this company is based in Scotland (dear to my heart) and of service to the Queen and make the original “Wellies” or Wellington boots that any Brit gardener wears. Top that off with silk long undies, jeans, 800 fill-power Marmot down jacket, Scotland-purchased navy shell with hood, polartec headband and driving gloves…

I was the “Michelin man” and felt like the little kid all bundled up for my first day of school! A grocery shopping, package delivering, driving fool I was in my new Wellies. Many years ago in grade school, fellow students laughed at us for our winter gear that we needed when the bus dropped us off 1/4 mile from our house to trudge through the snow. They also laughed at us because our bus was a 1/2 bus because it only picked up kids out in the country so our commute was at least 1/2 hour to get three miles to school.

Today I sported my bright yellow Wellies with pride. I’m not afraid to have dry feet and make a statement at the same time, even that it’s the fact Overstock had these boots on sale. As for the balaclavas, sorry Aunt L, I appreciate your efforts and that you kept us very warm in hats and mittens in our formative years but don’t know if I’ll wear one again. Your beautiful hand-knit scarves, that’s another story.

A neighbor wore a sheepskin-lined hat that covered her ears the other day and was embarassed. I said “whatever works” as it’s probably below zero outside. We’re going to a concert by the University choir together next week, at a church in our neighborhood. Pippi Longstocking is alive and well and living on my head. I can’t wait to bring “her” into the local knittery where I’ll have my first lesson after my fingers stop cracking and bleeding from lack of humidity in the air.

We’re getting the few gifts sent out that we’re giving to youngsters in the family. Perhaps Jim and I can find someone to take the dog and we can regroup for the new year and take a few days off. One year without a day off gets tired and stale and we don’t want that in our lives. May your holidays be about family and togetherness. From being made fun of by other students to my irrational fears of not being accepted over the years, I’ve created a home and family and culinary niche. If someone doesn’t like my winter gear, so be it. I’m like the ducks here in the Spring, the insults just roll off my back like water. Cheers, Dee

Grapes, Yes, Again

That’s what you seem to want! I’d like to show you a comment from the original post:

“One of the people responsible for developing those grape varieties you spoke about was Gary Woodbury, a former chemistry teacher at FHS and owner of Woodbury fruit farms. Welch’s didn’t always treat local farmers well, and having other options became desirable. He and my dad (and others?) ran experiments with lots of strangely-named grapes and made wine for years. I remember wathcing the tastings at dinner: uncork it, talk about it for a half an hour, and then grimace and spit when it was horrible. Several worked out well though, and Gary left teaching to become a vintner for a while as the operation grew. They had a spumanti and a champagne that was pretty good, and western NY State is on the map in the world of wine.”

Woodbury Vineyards is on the Seaway Trail. If you ever get to NY State please start in Chautauqua County (it’s 1.5 hours west of the Buffalo airport but worth it) and make sure not to miss the Adirondacks. We took a trip up there a few years ago with Jim’s folks and it’s something we’ll all remember fondly (I hope). Niagara Falls is a powerful reminder of what water can do, as well as the Erie Canal, Finger Lakes et al.

The comment came from a gentleman I grew up with and knew in grade school. I think we had a mutual crush on each other in the fifth grade and he even carved me a wooden violin but was too shy to give it to me. We touched base nearly ten years ago and he’s a great guy, architect and pilot, smart guy. I wish him well in his endeavors and will have to let him know how the grape dishes turn out! Cheers, Dee

German Food

My father grew up speaking German at home. For some time, his parents spoke only German. When Dad married, his mother taught my mother some recipes that we still have in the family. Hopefully I’ve got some of them in a box I never opened from my mother’s estate, as we moved the next day and our lives were in turmoil.

Rouladen is sliced beef around a carrot, slice of onion and seasonings that is seared then braised. It was never a favorite of mine and I’ve never made it, don’t have a recipe but could figure it out easily. Soup with farina balls, the “treasures” my sister hid because she hated them. Rice pudding.

My favorite was kugelhopf, a lemon-laced quick bread with raisins, baked in a bundt-type pan. I tried to get the recipe from Mom before she died but was unsuccessful, and have not had online success either. Mom always added enough flour, sugar and eggs in stages until it looked right. Now that I think of it, I never saw her make it but always asked if I could watch so I could get the proportions and technique right. Go out and play, you crazy kid! No, she never said that but thought it, I’m sure. Today, I’d love to make two breads, one to eat, cold or even better toasted; another for a bread pudding with creme anglaise laced with cognac.

We never made Sauerbraten. In college I looked up the recipe and we actually had room at home to marinate beef for four days. Now, sadly, I do not. When we were kids we lived in the middle of nowhere and drove further into nowhere to go to the only German restaurant in the county. That’s where we had our birthday dinners. That’s where I tried Schnitzel, latkes, and Sauerbraten. It was an incredible treat. One time I was driving with a colleague from a meeting in the Finger Lakes back home and we stopped in Binghampton NY, at a German restaurant. Even though that was over 20 years ago I still remember that Sauerbraten with red cabbage and applesauce. Perhaps someday, hopefully my Dad will be visiting, I’ll try to replicate that meal.

For me, perhaps my mother’s signature dish was what she made for our birthdays. We got a birthday request and the smart ones among us four chose her Viennese Chocolate Torte. It was a nut-based genoise with a milk chocolate ganache filling and dark chocolate glaze. Very complex flavorings for a child but something I’d love to make someday.

We grew up with lebkuchen, a German/Swiss variety of spicy cakes we received each year (stale because of shipping, waiting until Christmas when we got it in September then waiting until each of us wrote our own thank-you note before nibbling) that I’ve bought as treats for my husband’s family. They were returned because the Southern palate is unaccustomed to such “savory” desserts. I love them, which is why I love the Torte.

My mother and sisters were always the dessert people. I always cooked snacks, appetizers and main and side dishes. Interesting that my sense memories are mainly about desserts! My mother-in-law makes fantastic desserts and is called upon to make wedding cakes for family and friends near her home.

No photos, and I can’t even think of German food I cook today, it’s mostly Italian or Greek or French or downright American. Thanks for reading. Tune in tomorrow. If you want me to opine on a particular subject, let me know. Cheers, Dee

Can-can

Years ago I was working at 41st and 5th in Manhattan, opposite the infamous library lions. The building next door had a deli downstairs that made fantastic sandwiches and a couple of times per week I’d go there and pick up lunch and a soda to have at my desk.

One day, the proprietor had on the radio as usual, but the line was longer than usual. Someone said they recognized the music and I agreed but couldn’t put my finger on it. The owner said he’d buy lunch the next day for the patron with the correct name of the composer and song. People guessed, and all of a sudden, out of nowhere I blurted out “Orpheus in the Underworld, by Offenbach.” Whatever long-term memories are tucked into that brain of mine I do not know. They surprise me all the time.

A couple days later my turkey sandwich was on the house! It was the Can-can dance that everyone can sing but no-one knows the operetta or composer. Sheer dumb luck, perhaps, but it’s the only thing I’ve ever won in my life and five bucks when you’re trying to live alone in NYC is a gift.

Now I want to tell you about a sandwich I loved, even before I moved to NYC. There was a basement restaurant on my street with a vegetarian sandwich. It started with 12-grain hearty bread and included layers of (forgive me I don’t recall the layering) raw spinach, thinly-sliced mushrooms, tomato, perfect-temperature Brie, alfalfa sprouts… that’s all I remember. Our food delivery folks came last week with a beautiful loaf of oat-topped ten-grain bread and I’m thinking of making this sandwich. For a meat and potato guy, go figure.

I thought you might like to hear about those memories. Shall I tell you about Sauerbraten and red cabbage? Maybe next post.

Music in Your Heart

I took a few weeks off lessons, a good thing as the lack of humidity up here is shredding my fingers. But I miss it. Not the pressure of practice, the sound of music. I just pick up the guitar and ask my husband to name a song and I try to play it. Without the pressure of having to learn a song or try a technique, my mind is free to imagine the music and play at least chords.

Yes, I am definitely a work in progress and need many more lessons. Today, I stopped by the shop for a couple of items for a holiday gift. I gave greetings to some of the Conservatory staff and as I headed out I heard my teacher’s voice. I went into the office, gave him a hug and he asked what I was doing there. I told him and he said “You’re giving the gift of music.”

As I thought about it I said to myself what I did not say to Korky. My teachers, over the past six months, have given me the gift of music that I’ve missed for decades. While I’ve a lot of work ahead of me before I even play for family, it is incumbent upon me to share that gift of music with our family so that’s our gift this year.

I gave Korky a holiday gift and he said he had nothing for me. That’s not true. Today I pass on a gift of music that was instilled by my grandfather, my father, my music teachers in grade school (one just sent me a cookbook about grapes) and is present in me. Throughout life, my music teachers have been my salvation – I just gave them up for thirty years! Giving the gift of music encourages a budding musician and encourages the giver when s/he sees the gift grow.

Do I have a food analogy? Of course I can find one. Most cooking schools teach amateurs a dish or meal to serve for Valentine’s Day or whatever. They don’t teach techniques. If you know how to braise and what to braise, you can braise any appropriate ingredient. Learn the basics (see my cookbooks list) then do your own thing. Same with music. Know the rules then when, and how, to break them.

Yeah, I’m a dangerous gal now. Politics, cooking, music. PDXknitterati, do you REALLY want me to take up knitting and have sharp objects in both hands? Think about it. Happy holidays, Dee

Liverwurst and Buttermilk… and Grapes

Isn’t that what Bing Crosby and Rosemary Clooney had at that lovely Vermont inn, home of the General? Danny Kaye did “choreography” and Bing sang his most illustrious holiday song…..

I want a sappy Christmas movie! Or at least a song on the car radio that makes me break down in tears and be thankful for all my blessings. My blog has snow (must have initiated itself because somehow I asked for it last year). It’s pleasant but the real stuff is falling and Jim’s car spun out this morning and I tried like heck to have him switch cars and take my AWD with brand new snow tires down the mountain. He made it there and back, thank goodness. There’s something to be thankful for.

Yesterday, two of Jim’s colleagues and their children came over for lunch and video games (Star Wars). She brought a nice bottle of Chianti and five pounds of black, seedless grapes of variety I’m unfamiliar. They look like Concords but are twice the size and oblong. She must have read my blog about the grapes!

So, we can’t eat them all and I’m thinking of a grape pie from the new cookbook my grade school music teacher just sent me, or a grape crumble I found from the grape growers’ website, and perhaps schiacciata con a’l uva, a grape pizza of sorts.

Thanksgiving is not the only time to be thankful. I’m thankful to have my dear husband, and to know that most of my family is alive and speaking to one another. Jim’s family is doing well with some losses this year and more babies we didn’t get to meet on turkey day. And every day we’re alive and living in a winter wonderland is precious and should be cherished. With All Wheel Drive. And snow tires.

The coolest thing is that six-year old Michael, upon exiting our home yesterday, said “We’ll be back tomorrow!” So I guess we have to be thankful that we’re not old fuddie-duddies like we thought we were.

Hope you’re enjoying the holiday season and not stressing too much. Cheers! Dee

Teens

I’m talking weather, not an awkward stage for many growing humans.

Today it was under teens when I got up. The Pippi Longstocking hat (thanks PDXknitterati) went on. In future I’ll have to wear my polartec headband underneath it. New gloves weren’t warm enough so I’ll have to open up the newest ones or layer the gloves as well, over polartec. My core was toasty in a Marmot 800 fill-power down jacket with an unlined nylon shell (with roll-out hood for foul weather) to cut the wind. My feet were toasty in REI merino wool socks and Croc boots. My legs were freezing in jeans. I need to try on my new silk underwear or find some flannel-lined chinos and jeans for me and my husband.

It’s definitely time for comfort food. Right now I need to cook a pork tenderloin. More on my plate today, assuring a car that will traverse the snow as my husband drives up and down the mountain. Pot roast sounds good. Coq au vin. I may even venture into cassoulet territory as the winter unfolds!

Have a great Thursday. Now I have to find out who won Top Chef last night (it comes on at eleven here and the land of nod beckoned before that time). Cheers, Dee