Monthly Archives: March 2009

Let It Snow

‘Tis the wrong season for these lyrics. When the roads cleared I used a box from the car to get the snow off. Then I headed out to Walgreens for two car window scrapers.

I found them and cleaned off Jim’s car and put his present in the trunk. I moved both cars to plowed locations. I’m starting to be able to see the mountains again, a little bit.

Even the drugstore had put out its Spring display with Easter and gardening items. They didn’t expect this storm either.

Got a lot done today, not pretty stuff. A lot of organizing and phone calls. Moving stuff from cars, literally getting my feet wet in Utah.

We need to find a place to lay our heads at night that is not a hotel. That is my quest. As a pioneer I’m wanting.
When we crossed Wyoming there was a spot pioneers gathered on July 4th because they they could reach their destination before the first snowfall. We flew through there at 75 mph. There are wagon ruts in the stone five feet deep in some places. It’s our first time driving the checkerboard states, but can you imagine moving a family knowing it would take that long?

Then again, Nurse Margie would say that slowing the ascent would mitigate altitude sickness. So perhaps we should have taken two mules and a dog. And Sister Sarah and Clint Eastwood for good measure.

Hope you’re cooking the things I can’t on two burners and a microwave right now. Don’t make me write a book on how to live in an extended stay suite. No way. The Knights Who Say Ni would not approve.

Sunshine, still can’t see the mountains. Perhaps I’ll take a few photos tomorrow. Now it’s up to me to order pizza. We’re exhausted and Jim just got home from his first day of work. Cheers, Dee

First Day

The weather started out great then went downhill during the day. We left pretentious Park City and traveled to town where we started looking at housing options.

This week there is much on my list to do. So while it rained, rained/snowed and now is lightly snowing, covering the grass (barely) but not the sidewalks which have been warmed by the sun for many days.

It’s my favorite time for writing and house-hunting, middle of the night. I breathe better sitting upright and Jim keeps turning up the heat to 74 degrees and it’s so dry! We’re in hotel “suites” now, extended stay for the week while we house-hunt.

JIm starts work today and last night I prepped the hiring documents for him. I still have to close out TX and he’s already talking about finding a mechanic et al. There’s so much on my to-do list I won’t even start the list until light of day.

We have a microwave and two burners. No oven, not even a toaster. I found a Whole Foods and picked up a few things so Jim can have cereal, or eggs and microwave bacon and a muffin, for breakfast and I can make myself a grilled cheese sandwich for lunch.

Zoe’s doing fine. She’s been sleeping a lot though her vet said she won’t have as much trouble as we humans will with the altitudes. Time to try to sleep so I can help Jim settle in for the first week of a new job. Cheers, Dee

The Continental Divide

Yesterday, driving across Wyoming, we passed the Continental Divide. If anyone remembers that from grade school they’ll know that on the Eastern side, rain water drains into the Atlantic. On the West side, the Pacific Ocean.

We stayed at a lovely hotel, the Historic Plains Hotel. It’s part of a revitalized downtown. Unlike most modern hotels, this 1911 charmer has thick walls between rooms. We were on the top floor overlooking Cheyenne Depot Park and even the dog slept so soundly she was upside-down and not protecting us from other guests’ doors opening all night.

After breakfast at the Capitol Grille (the main hotel restaurant) we got on the road for what we thought would be a brief six-hour trip into Utah. It was more like eight. High plains, indeed. Before we hit the Continental Divide we reached 8,640 feet above sea level. This is from folks who’ve lived at three feet above sea level for the past five years.

As we climbed Jim and I both got more and more tired. A few miles past the Sinclair oil refinery (Sinclair Dino-Land from the 1964 World’s Fair in NYC!) we stopped at Pizza Hut for lunch. A couple of sodas and a personal pan pizza later we thought we were OK to go. Shortly thereafter we stopped at a rest stop. I couldn’t keep my eyes open and was nauseous. I didn’t know how to push through the last few hours.

A guy there told us it was altitude sickness. Makes sense. Whenever we went to Snowbird years ago and lived at 8,000 feet on the slopes, I got sick. We’re at Park City now, en route to look at a few places to stay this morning. Don’t know the altitude here but I believe in the SLC valley it’s about 5,000 feet and last time it took me 3-4 days to get used to it.

Getting used to flat, flyaway hair and static electricity (I get shocked every time I touch metal) is a hardship I’ll have to endure. After a few days of living out of two suitcases with a pail of dog food and Zoe’s bowls, I’m looking forward to being able to have some semblance of home even though we brought very little with us.

I hope to be able to get back to cooking very soon, and eating sit-down meals. Zoe’s not welcome in many hotels and we can’t leave her in the room. If we bring her with us we can’t enter a restaurant, so end up sending Jim out for takeout and we eat in the room.

I packed up and Jim’s down at breakfast. We’ll load up the car and head down the mountain in search for living quarters. Wish us luck! Cheers, Dee

Road Signs

They’re very small in OK, KS, CO and not in WY as we’re only 12 miles in. Very small and with a lot of verbiage. “Make sure you don’t do this because it’s against state law.” When you’re 1/4 mile away you see the sign, try to read it and miss most of it because you have to keep your eyes on the road.

Signage is bad, as in none from TX to I-35 North to OK City, and none whatsoever guiding one to true I-70 to Denver. I did pass one sign that said the next three exits would take one to the Pike’s Peak area, an area that my Aunt Lorna explored as a twenty-something en route from SF, in her Mustang. I thought of her today.

We had no time to loiter, however, as we need to get to our destination and find a place to live.

I had a dream last night that we had an additional box to pack, not a box, a drawer, a shallow drawer. And I needed to pick up jigsaw puzzle pieces. Think what a shrink could do with that one. There were other things in the drawer but I don’t remember.

I enjoyed driving a checkerboard state, as I’ve only seen them from 35,000 feet. As for Denver, we were tolled $7.50 each car to drive five miles. Smog, yuck, I never saw the City but what people go through to work there looks abominable and we hit the outskirts at 4:00 p.m. pre-rush hour.

Wish we could spend a bit of time in Cheyenne but we really do need to finish this endless journey. We did great on the driving, the packing and moving fell behind.

This hotel is lovely, and for the weekend it is populated by beauty pageant contestants and the “Border Queens” of the Ms. Wyoming Pageant. The Border Queens are here at the hotel tonight and it’s a sight to see. There are a few people I know who would like to take that title, but not in this venue.

It’s quiet, Jim and Zoe are sleeping soundly (it makes a difference when there are actual walls between rooms, which folks understood when this was built in 1911). Otherwise Zoe protects us from every voice, door opening, etc. in a hotel because she’s not used to the sounds.

Off to bed now. More at our final destination, no not THAT one. Dee

At Wit’s End

We’re moving. Two full cars, two adults, one dog. Not only do we need to watch our cars full of stuff, drive separately and travel in tandem, we find it difficult to find a place to stay that will allow our dog. Our places have run the gamut from a crummy place in a swanky part of Houston; to the best hotel of all, Jim’s parents’ farm; to a dismal Holiday Inn Express (we thought that brand was a standard but it’s not, at least out west); and tonight, a lovely 1911 hotel in historic Cheyenne, WY overlooking the Union-Pacific train station and Cheyenne Depot.

It has been an adventure, but too often as dog owners we’ve been placed with a view of the dumpster, and between the elevator and ice machine. So these hotels pretend to have a pet-friendly policy but have their worst possible room available for the sucker who dares take it.

They always say “We’ll put you on the first floor so it’ll be easy to take the dog out” and in code that means “Stay off the elevators and out of public areas. Stick to the back where no-one can see you.”

Forget about eating. We’ve had more delivery pizza and drive-in Sonic burgers than one should eat in a lifetime in the past week. No-one will even serve us on a patio. It’s been too warm to leave her in the car, and she freaks out being left alone in a hotel room.

Tomorrow, as we reach our final destination, we’ll have a good place to stay, I hope. It’s been booked and we look forward to a relaxing evening before finding a place to live and starting work on Monday.

For those hotels that treated us well, you’ll hear from me. The opposite is true as well. Gone is the day when a hotel lives in a vacuum. I’m fifty and have my first blog. I have a plethora of electronics that connect me to the world for free. Does a hotelier really think that pretending to have a pet-friendly policy will make it these days?

Pet owners spend a lot of money in the US. When only 2.5 star or lower hotels are available to us that’s an insult. We’re used to staying at three-star or better and are willing to pay the price, but not to be treated as “steerage” once we get there.

I walked Zoe tonight, while Jim ordered take-out because we weren’t allowed near a restaurant. I actually wish we could spend some time here because it seems like it has an interesting history. But we have to go on. I arranged for a six-hour travel day tomorrow so we can finally rest.

Zoe doesn’t know who I am anymore. I’m just the lady that feeds her and follows her place to place. And tells her to be quiet as she humpphs and growls whenever anyone opens their hotel door. Jim pulled up by me today and Zoe looked at me and knew me and the car. All I can think is that she and Jim are running away and I keep catching up to them every evening! Hey, I never got the Aerobed/vacuum cleaner connection in a dog’s mind…

Cheers, Dee

Adventures in Driving with Zoe

Texas did itself proud yesterday, bidding us a brief farewell in a blaze of Bluebonnets. Thank goodness for Lady Bird Johnson, who inspired wildflowers along the medians of the state’s major routes.

Though Jim’s family lives five miles south of the Red River, and we’ve known each other going on eight years, I’d never seen it ’till we crossed into Oklahoma yesterday morning. Signage was scarce or nonexistent but we found our way North. Southern OK was pretty, hillier than I’d imagined.

Soon balmy temperatures and partly sunny skies gave way to fifty-degree weathers and electrical storms. We had planned to meet (we’re driving two cars) at a picnic area for sandwiches I’d made. So we stopped at a Braums in Pauls Valley for lunch. After lunch the skies cleared once again and we made it around a horrendously ugly, overgrown OK City. As we meandered into Kansas, Wichita looked like a lovely place which we hit right at rush hour and traffic was light and friendly, unlike the people honking at me in our home State of TX.

Just watch out for the KS Highway Patrol. Talk about efficient! No “stings” like when the Houston PD sets up several patrol cars under the Pierce with radar guns to catch unaware folks going 41 mph (rather than 40) going down a steep hill.

We’re at the juncture of 135 and I70 headed out to Denver and Cheyenne. We’re staying at an historic hotel tonight, not at a dump next to the back exit, overlooking warehouses and listening to the ice machine all night. That’s what people with dogs are relegated to.

First time in KS, CO and WY! Must get on the road now. Cheers! Dee

Last Night in the Big City

I’m sitting on a clean area rug two feet from my city view for the last night. Every bone and muscle in my body hurts from packing and moving. We had three professionals here on our ninth day of moving and Jim and I worked alongside them prepping boxes, taping et al. After eight hours packing and loading they couldn’t get into the storage facility because of a wrong gate code so we now have to hire a new crew for tomorrow and keep the truck another day. Luckily we have good friends.

My laptop is above the printer’s box, so it’s a desk of sorts. We have two bar-chairs but the bar is covered in moving materials and framed photos to be wrapped and packed for storage. Even though we have no furniture except for said chairs and an aerobed, there is much to be done before we leave town.

In the meantime I enjoy our view and will probably be up all night once again, worrying, so will try to find something pithy to say. Cheers, Dee

Pyrex

First, thank you WordPress, for giving my entries top posts on the Editorial blog. Also thanks for creating new blogs just because I wrote something esoteric that you thought fellow bloggers and readers might like. You just created one for my Aunt Lorna’s Smith-Corona portable electric typewriter, and others. It’s not an Oscar, but a reward for work whose only remuneration is the work and readers and that is much appreciated.

As I sit at a small typewriter return desk already packed for moving, with a book reader lamp as my light, there’s another topic I’d like to cover.

Pyrex. Of course I’ve a couple 8X8 baking pans and lasagne pan. But it’s the bowls. Aunt Lorna gave me the blue bowl, the smallest one that always breaks, from her grandmother. Then Jim’s mother gave me one from her family, yes we have two blues now.

Then it steps up to a red, a green and a yellow is the icing on the cake. If this set fits into the cars that would be fantastic. I love these bowls and may have written about them before. Jim’s mother got me everything but the blue for a great price at a country antique store. As Dallas moves into those areas I hope they raise their prices!

I don’t have a photo for you but may get you one shortly as it’s very late and Jim and Zoe are asleep and I don’t want to use a flash because everything’s pretty open here.

I believe the bowls were made in the fifties, perhaps before then. They are a joy to have and know their history and the people who used them. These things matter to me. Anything that came from family matters to me, like the cutting board I used tonight to cut up a pot roast of Wobbly, the fattest calf on the farm who became dinner. It was tasty, with egg noodles. The bowls, Wobble and a lot of stuff we have are family legacies, like the cutting board made from the grandfather who died two weeks before I was born.

A box from my mother arrived today. I don’t have time to open and close it again so its contents will remain a surprise for 1-6 months. It’s quite light and I hope it contains her 1950′s Revere Ware potato masher. Will let you know when I open it.

Probably 2-3 days packing left then movers to storage. Then we get on the road, visit Jim’s folks and Nanny and head out with both cars, the dog and fully-packed cars.

I don’t think my putting a label “CAR” on the Pyrex would work. We need too many other things but it’ll be well-packed and safe in storage. Just looking at them makes me think of days past when we ate cherries from the farm stand down the street or baby strawberries down the path to the creek.

The midnight hours when I’m sweating the move and all is the only time I can write and writing helps me get tired enough to go to sleep, so that’s what I’ll try to do. You take care now, Dee

Sundry Items

Ten years ago my mother packed up her Lenox china for me. She never sent it, and she died last Fall. We re-packed it tonight with a lot of packing peanuts and at the bottom of one box was my childhood Christmas stocking.

I don’t want to take a picture of it, although I could. I’d have to turn on all the lights and awaken Jim. Also I want you to remember your first Christmas stocking and what it meant to you. You got only coal? Sorry.

Mine is very inexpensive felt with felt glued on to it. OK, it now says “Merry” when there was originally a “Christmas” at the end.

I thought she’d have some note but instead there was my stocking. I burst into tears when I found it. It either meant she was dissolving her relationship with me or that she cared and wanted me to have this in my new life. I prefer to believe the latter.

It’s hard losing a parent. It was sudden although she’d had cancer for six years and I’d been to hospitals to visit and also flown to her home to help out with my sisters taking the brunt of the work, giving them a break.

Even though she packed it and kept it in her garage for ten years I welcome this sundry item, my childhood Christmas stocking, and will take good care of it. It never contained coal… we had a routine on Christmas Day, but that’s another post. Cheers! Dee

Second Wind

It’s midnight. I laid down for a while and napped, then arose and finally showered. The dishwasher finished running and I’m just now starting a load of clothes to wash. It’s 44 degrees and raining. Yesterday it was 84 degrees.

We are full to the gills with moving boxes and not nearly done yet. Mostly we are blessed by friends who come over and spend several hours in the trenches, packing. Tonight Jan brought us tasty BBQ AND dessert and helped pack our Italian majolica, my mother’s bone china and all the most expensive framed art on the walls. [We are leaving the priceless quilts on the walls for now as we'll put them in the car and leave them with Jim's folks for the duration rather than put them in storage.] Jan was tired when she went home a couple of hours ago. Nothing like having an art museum curator to pack the delicate stuff!

I know, it’s an embarrassment of riches. First an MIT grad helped Jim wrap the big bulky stuff (sleigh bed, sofa) then an energy and finance whiz for the smaller items to wrap, now a museum curator. I think Obama’s stopping by tomorrow for a couple of hours, then Warren Buffett on Saturday to finish up.

We finished most of the books, including my extensive and esoteric cookbook collection that includes volumes on home cheese making and a trail mushroom guide, Sicilian vegetables, a Jewish settlement cookbook and one from a friend’s mother’s church and JIm’s mother’s VA cookbook. I didn’t even know what I had!

When we moved here from Austin we rented a garage downstairs for a week. Whenever we had a dolly load of packed boxes, Jim brought it downstairs. Here we’re just inundated. Tomorrow we finish the books and shelves, rest of the pictures, and start on the laundry room/pantry, master closet and kitchen. Hope I can sleep tonight but I may just be too bone-weary to do so.

Today we went to the office supply store so we could have an “in your face” way to designate boxes that must go with us in the car. So the yellow ones designate “Fragile” and orange designates “Car.” As I went around tagging the car boxes I put one Car sticker on the dog so we wouldn’t forget her. Hey, one needs some light moments in the exhausting tedium of moving a life into storage.

Hope you’re having a great day. I think we have three packing days before us before we hit the road. When Jim moved from Texas to San Diego he had three linear feet in a freight truck. When we moved from San Diego to Texas we had 12 linear feet. He tells everyone the girl he met in San Diego and married there cost him Nine Linear Feet! Now we’d take at least the entire 20′ truck.

Perhaps we remember the days when all our belongings went into the trunk (college) or pickup truck (post-college). But even in 1,028 sf that we moved into with a kitchen, office and bed… now we have a dining room, living room and bedroom and that’s a lot of stuff.

Hope you’re having a great week. We can’t wait to get done and have a paycheck start coming in from work starting a week from Monday. Cheers, Dee