Monthly Archives: February 2009

Howdy!

Thanks Mr. Mayor (honorary mayor of our lofts) for tix to this weekend’s BBQ championship at the Rodeo, which opens officially March 3rd.

Jim and I walked into town for the big parade then took a train to the Rodeo. We tried brisket, sausage, pork roast, chicken, spicy beans and cheesecake. And we met a guy who grew up a couple of miles from where Jim did. Now that’s unusual as there are more cows than people in those parts of TX! I think Jim’s entire high school graduating class consisted of thirty students. Mine, on the other hand, was more like 2.500, at least in one of my high schools.

We walked through the midway, and through the exhibit hall, which is still in the process of being set up. Then we took the train back to town and walked home. I missed Deputy Dog at the Parade, darn. We only missed about ten minutes of a two-hour extravaganza. We were beat when we got home. I laid down for a bit then prepared hamburgers and fries for dinner.

It’s supposed to go down to the thirties tonight, with 20 mph winds. Zoe’s tummy is messed up from Jim’s miscalculation in her breakfast yesterday morning (wrong food and three times the usual) so he has her out one last time before we turn in. Tomorrow we have a brunch catered by a downtown restaurant and hope to introduce our new neighbors to some of the old neighbors so they feel at home.

That’s about it for us. Hope y’all are having a great weekend. Cheers, Dee

New Places, Adventures

Hello Fearless Reader/Contributor,

On Charlie Rose the CEO of Twitter seemed, without saying as much, to send a death knell to bloggers. Writing 500 – 1,000 words a day is cathartic to me, I can’t really imagine doing it in 140 characters. “Meet me at Starbucks” doesn’t qualify as something to send out to the world. Especially as I don’t drink coffee. Only espresso and then only at the end of a languorous Italian meal.

Moving. We don’t know that we will move from TX but there are some interesting opportunities in the US and elsewhere. Jim locates the job – I can’t do it anymore as the air gets more rarified and economy worse every day. I check out several cost of living indices, then hit Craigslist (shout out to y’all) for some indication of housing costs. If it’s another city I check out the lifestyle et al, another country immigration requirements for us and dog Zoe and what we can bring along.

While Zoe doesn’t have a vote (it wouldn’t be fair as she has four paws then it would be even 4/4) everything is a new adventure. A couple of years ago we spent a few months in Glasgow and London. Before that, Utah, both on a temporary basis. Sad to say, we won’t be having children, so are more mobile than others plus bring significant technical knowledge and growth opportunities. So we are open to new adventures.

These adventures don’t come without personal or financial risk, but they are short-term adventures and we minimize risk by the way we move (tow that barge, lift that bale) and live. I believe our lives would be poorer without the adventures we’ve taken together. Everything we’ve been through in the past 7.5 years has made us stronger. And we adopted a dog from a shelter, took out her hips as a pup and left it to her to grow her own. She was diagnosed with severe hip dysplasia at five months of age. She’s bunny-hopping again, but running and new folks can’t even tell! She is deteriorating, however, as sometimes we have to “otis” her up to bed (Otis invented the elevator, ours is a human getting out of bed to lift her). Val (often on this blog) took out her hips, even saved the first one for Jim to see.

If Zoe can be the happiest dog in the world (have a contest, she’ll win) we can make it through a job search in a bad economy. We hope y’all are doing OK out there. Best wishes to the military spouses and knitters out there who like this blog. Love you gals! Plus the D.C. political contingent, you know who you are. Fingers crossed and you know you’re invited on all our adventures. My MacBook is with me when traveling.

We look forward to the parade tomorrow. Downstairs in Trail Rider Land it’s not very populated this year and it must be due to $$$ issues, sorry to hear that. More reason to walk into town (we can’t drive because they’re closing our street) and cheer them on. Best to you and yours, Dee

Texas

We packed up and moved to Texas 5 1.2 years ago, Jim’s birthplace and my first time here except for changing planes at DFW over the years. I started a Texas Journal to email friends and relatives and kept it up for six months or so.

Who knows where we’ll end up in the next few weeks, I may have to a Farewell to Texas party. Right now the Trail Riders are living right below us overnight, preparing themselves and their horses and wagons for the Rodeo Parade in the morning. We may walk over there as they’re closing our street.

I don’t remember if I told you this but as we drove to Texas, a 24-hour trip from fire-ravaged and smoke-laden SoCal, we lucked out and had three days to do it. The last day was a Sunday and Jim started work first thing Monday morning so I drove the final eight hours. It was the first day of deer season, and we stopped at a restaurant and half the folks were just coming in from church and the other half were wearing camo. Jim said the deer get pretty jumpy (with all the gunshots I would too) so I was extra vigilant driving, especially when he was sleeping in the passenger seat.

We finally left I-10 which we had been on forever and headed down 290 towards Austin. Jim awakened and said I looked much more relaxed than I’d been. I showed him the “ranchettes” we were passing, near Fredericksburg and Pedernales (LBJ country) and the wire fences and was happy. That’s when he told me that a fence of that height is merely a suggestion for a deer, who can easily clear ten feet. As you can see we made it, but he scared the heck out of me!

I wanted to tell you a story of TX BBQ. Our first year in Austin we flew to upstate NY to visit my aunts and I ordered a traditional Texas meal from the Salt Lick south of Austin, sent by Fed Ex. I believe we spent more for shipping than for the food. We had tons of food, the aunts froze some of it and ate it over several months.

A couple of years later Jim decided we could ship our own. Leave it to Jim. [Note: I'm writing this because I just read an article on Slate (www.slate.com) on shipping human blood.] We bought a cheap cooler. Jim drilled four holes in the top for gases to escape. I went to Luling City BBQ to pick up brisket, ribs and sausage for a good price. The night before we left for the airport, he went out to buy 10 lbs of dry ice, packed it up using leather gloves and we sealed and placed on it every sticker needed and not, for hazmat purposes.

That night we were 2# overweight but Jim said the ice would melt (I believe dry ice is about 140 degrees below zero) and the gases vent through the top of the cooler, so when the airline ticket counter person asked what was in the cooler Jim gave him a physics briefing on the rate at which dry ice sublimates. He was so bored with the explanation he passed the cooler right through. And we had great BBQ and every time the aunts ate it, we got an update on what they served with it.

That’s a long way to say that we’d miss Texas not only for the realy BBQ brisket, ribs and sausages but mostly family and friends. I thought I’d really hate it and did when I sold my car to get here and Jim was working 30 miles away and I had no transportation anywhere. So we got a puppy and I had to take her out eight times a day and that and cooking and bills kept me busy.

Job market seems to be coalescing for us, knock wood. I think over the next week or two we’ll have solid offers and choose our destination, which may be right here at home! Having the “Human Tornado” underfoot 24/7 is wonderful for a week or so but it’ll be nice to have him out the door and brain-challenged once again.

I must say a word or two about the BBQ of Jim’s maternal Uncle Bobby. He has a custom rig on a trailer and smokes his briskets 13 hours, babysitting them. He makes fantastic food. We did some research a few years ago about BBQ rubs and most competition chefs won’t divulge their secrets for anything. I read elsewhere than many use MSG to enhance flavor and even Chinese restaurants don’t use that in the US anymore. I use an all-purpose rub and add here and there, and since I don’t have a smoker or ability to use one, living on the 4th floor, I use the Alton Brown oven method, which is tasty.

Keep on cooking! Have a great weekend. Cheers! Dee

Clouds and Zoe

A couple of nights ago the clouds rolled in over the city and I’d have better shots without the roadway lighting. Oh, well, so be it. Zoe likes the highest place or warmest place to sleep, so here is the Usurper in paradise, in the middle of the night, in my sleeping space.

The Clouds Roll In

The Clouds Roll In

Zoe The Usurper

Zoe The Usurper

Thanks for reading and participating in this blog. It wouldn’t be here without you. Dee

Luck of the Draw

No matter how one wants to control his/her life, in the job world it comes down to who wants you, where you have to go, and what they’ll pay. Is a move worth the hassle? What about the dog? Corporate housing or move all our stuff.

Not that we have that much stuff, but every room in our loft is functional, i.e. sofa and coffee table, dining table and four chairs… And we live in a little over 1,000 sf now, so it’s not like we have a 3,000 sf place and need to pare down.

Jobs are like life. You meet someone you like, and if he likes you perhaps you’ll fall in love and marry. It took a long time for me to meet my prince, and that he is, when he’s not the human tornado that leaves a mess everywhere he goes. As far as luck goes I’d go to Mass but the roof might fall in. I did go to the Cathedral to mourn the loss of Pope John Paul II. The roof didn’t fall in but they were building a new Cathedral next door. We may be living in another country so it’ll be safe from the likes of non-observant Catholics like me.

I’ve been up all night for two nights now worrying about our future. I go to bed around seven and wake up a few moments later to take out the dog, or at ten. Seeing the bank account disappear even though we’re eating at home three meals a day and not even going to movies, is stressful. Jim and I like having good times together, getting a burger, seeing a matinee on a carefree Saturday. He’s incredibly lucky that I’m not a shopper!

I know that everything is going to be OK, and it just takes time, but this job cycle is really freaky, the worst and strangest I’ve ever seen. Fingers crossed we’ll get through it and be able to resurrect our lives and lifestyle. We pay for where we live, for a reason, to walk downtown. We don’t go to expensive restaurants but like to spend $25-30 (with tip) for a nice lunch on a weekend. We don’t owe anything on our cars and don’t have a mortgage. We basically live on a cash basis. If we don’t have it, we don’t spend it.

Yes, the economy stinks. Tell me about it. Jim is the brightest person I know and even he’s having trouble finding the right job. And I know just how to get it. I’ll search and interview and the minute I get a job he’ll move me to another state or country. That’s how it goes. Dee

Cheater Lasagne

was on the menu tonight. Our friends Trish and dog Sake stopped by tonight for a brief visit. Zoe jealously guarded her leather bone from Sake, who cared so little about it she gave it to Zoe a year ago! They were very sweet together. Sake’s an alpha dog, rescued as feral. Zoe’s beta and needy and gets her way by hook or by crook.

Tomorrow the Trail Riders come into town for the big Rodeo parade on Saturday. These guys are my peeps, with barbecue and everything. I just bring along a case of beer. Deputy Dawg is legendary and last year his wagon threw an axle so he spent the night welding something together so he could be in the parade. Hope all is well this year. I love talking with him about food and with the kids as well.

Deputy Dawg at the Grill

Deputy Dawg at the Grill

We love these guys! Our street is closed Saturday and I’ll make sure I have provisions to get by. While I hang with the Trail Riders, Jim’s going to invite girlfriend Trish over to compete on PS3 games. Better her than me. I’ll make sure they have dinner/snacks. The best part for me is watching them come back from the parade on our street. We stand out there and cheer them in. Only in Texas, I know. Best, Dee

The P-Team

Rich, Kevin and Dee, the P-Team. Privacy. We engineered an across-the-board privacy initiative that has probably not been seen since. My cable TV privacy bill when Manhattan wasn’t wired and cable wanted interactive was A.B.1984. Techies, take note of the number and year. Including my loving husband.

We fought for privacy in banking, home loans, and other consumer transactions. While I wrote the cable bill myself and hoped for a framed portrait of the bill with the Governor’s pen, it was Readers’ Digest that scuttled the deal, telling the Senate at the last moment that it might hurt their future earnings.

I shed tears in the ladies’ room for my “baby” and put it to rest. I do wish I had a copy of it now for hubris if nothing else. Anyway, the P-Team was a highlight in my legislative career and I’ve my team-mates to thank for that.

One is a successful lawyer and the other is head of our former staff. I prefer to do my privacy policy recommendations as a registered voter. Please use your voice and vote to go against any legislative attempt to make you keep logs of anyone you have any contact with on a computer or Vonage or other VoIP device for two years to give to law enforcement. This is a burdensome and unnecessary, and unwarranted and unconstitutional requirement that TX State Senator Cornyn wants passed. My political moment is over, back to cooking. Dee

It’s good to know that I was 20 years ahead of the times in at least one thing. It’s an important thing, not like fashion. Dee

A New Start

As we look here in town and elsewhere for jobs the possibility of going to a new country crops up. Temp or permanent? What do we do with our stuff? Our dog has been quarantined for EU countries for over four years – will anyone allow her to come with us?

What language do we need to learn? Is it safe to live there? Do I need to cover my face and hair and be banned from buying groceries without my husband present? There will be no brothers or uncles present to guarantee my safety.

Americans are considering going overseas for employment. Think about that Mr. President and Congress. All our Senator can provide is to require anyone with a home computer to keep everyone’s data on it for two years to give to law enforcement officials. That means anyone who emails, or talks to us on the phone, in order to keep children safe.

I think Mr. Cornyn has bigger fish to fry. His people are out of work and other countries don’t want to let US citizens in on a work visa. Yes, US citizens are considering going to other countries to find work.

Please let the market fix this. Giving money to these weasels doesn’t help anyone but the top 10%, The guys who broke it aren’t about to fix it. They’ll just take the money and go. Or not go, which is worse?

As a US citizen for fifty years I plead for you to not pressure us to go to another country for work. You, our elected representatives, can do better than that. Fitfully, Dee

The Pet Diaries

Cooking for Two

Peanut butter sandwich
over the sink
Of love or loss
There was nothing to think

Then my sister
sent me a cat
five weeks old
Imagine that

I could take care
of something
but a plant

Before Cable in NYC
We watched PBS
in Brooklyn

A gift from God
I named him Nathan
We needed food, there
Was no seitan

No cat experience
Should have bottle-fed
But he was a fighter
And so I said

I’d build a mouse
and that I tried
Fancy Feast he ate
And so I lie

Every year
he’d get Fancy Feast
On birthday and Christmas
It was the least

I could do for my guy
The Nate-Man
Smoked salmon not
A fan

Go figure.

The Pet Diaries 1
DAC 2009/1997

My Stagiere

I just finished the finale of Top Chef and while in my heart I hoped for Carla, I’m glad Stefan didn’t win. That makes Hosea, a compromise of compromises, Top Chef. Oh, well, so Glad paid him $100K. Bully for them.

When I was in cooking school at ICE (Institute for Culinary Education, formerly Peter Kump’s NYCS) we had a stagiere, pronounced “staj” for short. He was working his way through school and while he couldn’t help us with our food, he brought in all the ingredients before we showed up, cleaned up after us and brought us certain things we needed that weren’t on the cart that morning (i.e. 2T cognac for a dessert).

Currently I have one stage, but her only job is to be the “first rinse” at the dishwasher so I’m basically alone in the kitchen. Jim’s not allowed in except to get ice, water and soda. Perhaps tortilla chips. But if he goes around the other side of the island he knocks over pots and pans and none of them are round anymore. Oh, my stage is the dog, Zoe. She can be helpful. I opened a Dr. Pepper bottle for Jim the other day and it erupted. I cleaned the counter, cupboards and floor. Later that day she was licking the floor, so I know I missed a spot!

One thinks only Texas dogs like Dr. Pepper, which one connoisseur likened to “Dallas’ answer to Beaujolais.” Well, husband and dog are Texan. I keep my Diet Coke preferences to myself. I hate it when a restaurant switches our beverages and as I am the official “taster,” take a swig of prune juice instead of DC!

Here’s to stagieres across the nation and world. If I’d known I’d have financed culinary school that way and learned even more. Plus kept a few cents in the bank.

I modified an old cucumber salad recipe tonight and baked potatoes to go along with our roasted chicken breasts. More chicken is available for tomorrow so I’ll figure out what to do with it. I also want to make French Onion Soup a la Julia Child in the next few days. No way I’m making my own beef stock. ‘Night now, Dee.